Music Planning: Creating The Perfect Wedding Playlist
When it comes to planning your wedding, you will definitely have your plate full, to the point where taking care of anything can feel like too much.
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When it comes to planning your wedding, you will definitely have your plate full, to the point where taking care of anything can feel like too much. It’s important to have help from both professionals and the people you’ve chosen to be part of your wedding party; otherwise, things can become very frustrating very easily.
You’ll have to figure out your budget, book vendors, visit several venues in order to find the one that’s perfect for you, send the invitations, figure out your outfit, plan both the reception and the ceremony, and coordinate the minute details so that you don’t end up dealing with unforeseen circumstances that can put a damper on your enjoyment on your big day.
However, with all the details you need to have in order, you might disregard a very important one: the wedding music playlist. Having the right music in the background is the best way to set the mood, making everybody feel at ease and willing to engage with the festivities, while also creating a unified atmosphere and helping to make lasting memories.
The best collection of songsshould naturally have emotional resonance and be able to evoke both intimate and celebratory feelings. Depending on the venue you choose and the type of wedding you want to have, the music you will play will naturally vary as well. An elegant and sophisticated endeavor will naturally call for a different song selection than a more informal event where you just want to party with your friends.
If you haven’t yet started planning the type of music you’ll have at your wedding, here are a few of the things you should consider.
Consider The Theme
The theme of your wedding will inform all design choices you make, from the location to the decorations, and even your own outfit. For instance, if the ceremony is in a castle, you will want your outfit to be as romantic as possible. A wedding dress with lots of lacewill fit right in with the impressive architecture and photoshoots in romantic rose gardens. Make sure the gown has dramatic accents such as a finely embroidered high neckline and an ample dress. Diamond and pearl chandelier earrings and a pearl-studded clutch that feels more like a work of art than a bag.
However, if you want a wedding that is more rustic, you will want a dress that feels a little more whimsical but still elegant and soft. Tulle and lace are still perfect, with illusion sleeves being especially popular. Sleeveless gowns with a lace bodice and V-neckline are the perfect mix between ease and beauty, but if that doesn’t sound like your style, you can also choose something with an open back (perfect for a boho-style bride). Dresses with flutter sleeves and embroidered with florals are not just perfect for the setting, but also very comfortable.
Just as you’ve decided on an outfit depending on the theme of your wedding, you should also create a playlist that fits the location. The music you’ll want to play on a beach, in the desert, close to the forest, or at a castle will naturally vary. If you want to have a destination wedding, you should definitely consider leaning into the local music as well. For example, if you want to host your wedding in Mexico, you can get Mariachi music. If your wedding will take place in Ireland, though, you’ll want to play “Down by the Salley Gardens” and have a band that can blend in Celtic music playing.
Mix And Match
You don’t want the entire wedding to feel linear, so having a mixture of several different music genres can help tremendously. If you have too much upbeat music, it can start to feel overwhelming, but the consistently slow and ballad-like melodies will make the crowd feel much less energetic. Moreover, this guarantees that nobody feels like there’s absolutely nothing that they enjoyed listening to at the party. You can always count on classics such as ABBA, Whitney Houston, Queen, The Killers, Beyoncé, Aretha Franklin, and Oasis to put the people in the mood to party.
The music can and most likely should differ throughout the evening anyway. You can start with something more solemn and romantic in the beginning, then shift to more upbeat tunes gradually, ending with high-energy dance tracks for the reception.
The Genres
Unless you’re having a really small wedding and are absolutely sure that all your guests enjoy a particular music genre above all else, you should definitely aim to provide several genres. Creating such a complex playlist can be a challenge, especially if you’re not familiar with certain genres, such as jazz. You can always ask for help from the wedding party for this endeavor, and if you have friends who are huge music lovers and familiar with a broad range of musicians or genres, your playlist is already as good as done.
Classical is one of the most popular genres, especially during the ceremony. Schubert, Pachelbel, Bach, Elgar, Puccini, Mozart, Debussy, and Chopin are the composers whose work you should be focusing on at this stage. The Cello Suite No. 1 in G Major, Salut d’Amour, op. 12, Vivaldi’s Concerto for Lute, Suite Bergamasque, and the Nocturne Op.9 No.2 should always have a place in every single wedding playlist. Next, you can move on to jazz, which creates a highly sophisticated atmosphere.
Etta James’ “Stormy Weather”, Nat King Cole’s “Smile”, and songs by Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Nina Simone, Louis Armstrong, Tony Bennett, and Peggy Lee should be included in your cocktail hours playlist, while pop is best left for the dancefloor. Moreover, you can be sure that everyone will know the lyrics and even sing along, making the atmosphere even more special. Classic, softer alternative rock songs from the '80s and '90s are also perfect for weddings, especially since they can bring that added nostalgia factor that makes people feel more connected.
Creating a playlist for your wedding is definitely not an easy endeavor, which is why it’s essential to start early, allowing you plenty of time to add or remove songs. This approach will also feel more special since you’re choosing songs that hold special meaning for you, and you might even decide to hire a DJ or band to perform, rather than selecting a generic mix you found online.
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